How many of you are friends with people who don't support you by liking the stuff you publish? Workouts, pictures, achievements, etc... While at the same time, you've been liking and supporting everything that they do for a long time.
What is the point of having "friends" if we don't encourage and support each other?
I'm not interested in numbers, I'm interested in quality! 💪🏻
What are your thoughts on this?
GingerPower24
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I try to like and comment on as many of my “friends” profiles as possible. Sometimes it’s just an emoji but I figure it might give them a smile cause it makes me
Smile when people take the time to comment anything on my profile. :)
salmong
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I've already unfriended many of those who failed to send support my way over the past several months and I will continue to do so in the future. Giving everyone a chance is my motto but support has to go both ways.
Supporting people who don't support you back, ever, is a waste of time.
Time is a precious commodity and it shouldn't be wasted on everyone!
AelwxKraetorDraNator
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I don't leave likes, I don't mind if people don't leave me likes, however, I do enjoy participating directly by commenting here and there, and I do love to reply to comments on my activity, I appreciate that the most, I also like seeing you guys workouts details and some pictures are fun and engaging, I see your point, breezy raised this subject a while back, in the end, you can un friend the dead weight and move on, I should do that since I can accept or invite new friends without deleting some old users, and that is time and energy consuming
LostNatureGirl
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Out of 624 friends I only get about 50 likes per post (which is a lot TIA 🥹). I still don’t really know how Jefit’s feed works but I know not everyone I follow gets in my feed, but it would take me forever to like everyone else’s workouts. I do what I can. A lot of people are way busier than me. I’m happy to like who gets in my feed, but not everyone shows up. 🤷‍♀️
fitafter45
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It takes time to develop better online interaction, so one way to see it is, you start off accepting a FR, then see how it goes. If it doesn’t end up working for both sides, it’s okay to “unfriend”.
One thing that I don’t like is the “my circle” section of the app. It shows me users whom I don’t recognize. How is that “my circle”? So I prefer to have fewer friends because Jefit makes it harder to find updates from actual friends.
livelikeanapexpredator
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likes are a tap for me and free. so I give them out freely and generously without expecting any in return. it's just a tap for me.
unlike other socmed platforms, idk if you can see "list of likers". if i tap, I just end up liking my own post. so I can see and check who has liked. like back is kinda a hassle.
also personally I find it hard to browse to someone in the FL. there is no search option so it's all alphabetical. idk if there's a better way. But "aaron" is always gonna be top of my list and I really gotta scroll ALL THE WAY to get to "zarina"
pseb
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I’m like that too. I like to send requests to people I find inspiring and challenging with somewhat similar shape and/or age. Some people are awesome and knowledgeable which is something i value a lot. I try to encourage everyone and hope that’s reciprocated. And when it’s not… BANG! You’re outta there! LOL. Keep making us dream with that fancy footwork and incredible scenery Sal!
ProfChaosMSU52
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agreed i just went thru last week and removed a shit ton of people..need to keep track of who is liking and commenting and dwindle more. ive been busy later so i don't support others as much so i cant be too critical
Kogre
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I like the community aspect of this app but I dare not use it like SM. It's why I come to Q&A, to help out where I can or learn stuff, but I only friend the people (person) I know IRL. Not only because I'd have to purge people I had zero interaction with eventually, but I'd lose respect for people for having to purge them. By not friending them in the first place, I am mentally free of all that.
MrGotItAll.Swe
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Some are people aren't that social i'll guess. I try to like as many as i can muster per day. Sure it happends i miss someone time to time.
VillainousEverAfter
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I like every post that shows up in my friend feed. Most people don’t like posts (on any kind of social platform) unless they feel the content of a post affects them. So if they actually laugh, or can relate, or have experienced the same thing. It is unfortunate how few people take advantage of how easy it is to give a little boost to others.
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Smile when people take the time to comment anything on my profile. :)
Supporting people who don't support you back, ever, is a waste of time.
Time is a precious commodity and it shouldn't be wasted on everyone!
One thing that I don’t like is the “my circle” section of the app. It shows me users whom I don’t recognize. How is that “my circle”? So I prefer to have fewer friends because Jefit makes it harder to find updates from actual friends.
unlike other socmed platforms, idk if you can see "list of likers". if i tap, I just end up liking my own post. so I can see and check who has liked. like back is kinda a hassle.
also personally I find it hard to browse to someone in the FL. there is no search option so it's all alphabetical. idk if there's a better way. But "aaron" is always gonna be top of my list and I really gotta scroll ALL THE WAY to get to "zarina"
I've been using the app since 2012.